"When love is not madness, it is not love."
-Pedro Calderon de la Barca
To me this quote means that even through all the ups and downs you still have to love.
Love is not basic nor boring. The fights, the arguments, the disagreements the issues, the madness in general is all the more reason to stick by one another and get through it together. When people let go of love over small things that could have been avoided, it wasn't real love. When people can let go of the unnecessary and remember why their in the situation they are in & try and work through it... that's love.